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Sandals???

2008-05-10T02:29:18Z

I am looking to purchase an all purpose pair of sandals for myself...they must be comfy, supportive for wallking/hiking, AND be cute...do these exist? I have looked at all the Keen styles, and they are comfy, but not quite my idea of an all around super cute shoe...any ideas??? Thanks ladies!

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Styling short hair

2008-05-10T01:12:54Z

My current beau was in a car accident about a week ago, and he suffered a minor head wound, and he therefore had to cut all his hair so that it is now only about an inch in the longest places.

He so adored his hair that he's griping and moaning about his lost locks to no end. (His hair was between chin and shoulder length and he LOVED it, considered it his best feature). He's seriously pining over a lost lost love here and I can't get him to leave the house without a hoodie in this hot spring Cali weather!

He is thinking about taking pre-natal vitamins to try and promote fast hair growth, but I don't know if guys are really supposed to do that (even prissy ones like him) even though they are just vitamins.

I am thinking that he could be creative and work with what he has while it is growing, but truthfully I don't know about styling short hair myself.

Any divas familiar with short, cute, boy hair? Send links to cute style pictures if you have them!

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that "in between" stage

2008-05-09T20:02:12Z

I have recently decided to grow my hair out again. It has been only chin length for awhile now and since I started letting it grow, it's to about my mid-neck now. Prior to my decision to grow it out, it was stacked in the back. So currently it's at a place where I can't style it the way I did when it was short, but it's also not long enough for a new style. So I'm trying to decide how to deal with it while I'm waiting for it to grow out. Also, when should I get it cut and how should she cut it, or should I just let it grow until it gets close to the length I want?

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What do you guys do?

2008-05-09T16:26:45Z

Question for all the inventive and financially challenged women on BSFD:
What do you to stay on target with money while still meeting your beauty needs/wants? I have been forgoing highlights for months, but am going a little crazy with how my hair looks. Ditto for waxing, buying makeup, pedicures, etc.
How do you help yourself look/feel great without blowing the food/gas/cat food money?

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Primer....whats your favorite?

2008-05-09T15:28:40Z

I've tried a couple and was wondering what works best for you? I'm using Dr. Brandts Pores No More and love it, but hate the smell.

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Can I have your boobs please? (plastic surgery)

2008-05-09T04:06:50Z

After having 2 breastfed babies, I now have what my friend calls 'breasticles' ;) I want to get them lifted. Right now, I am a D cup, but only because they are wide. I have to have a padded bra to fill them out. I have MAYBE the volume of a b cup.

I dont want implants, I just want to get them lifted. Has anyone had a lift? Will they get smaller? I feel like they are going to be small for some reason if I have them lifted. If you had them done, do you love them now? I've never had really perky ones, so is it even possible to get nice perky ones with a lift?

And, yes, i like them more than I used to. I have worked on just accepting them, I like the rest of my body for the most part, I would really just like to have a great rack.

:D

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Extremely dry lips

2008-05-08T04:41:05Z

Hello there, I mostly just read the posts, but now I've got a 'burning' problem!

For months and months I used semi permanent lipstick, every day. By Maybeline and L'Oreal. Due to circumstances I stopped using these incredible lipsticks.

But now my lips are as dry as the Sahara Desert, really, it's unbelievable. They hurt, they burn, and in 5 places the skin is completely cracked. I tried liphealers, I drink more than enough water as always. I tried hydrating them with olive oil, and they just soak it up in 2 seconds without improvements.

Ladies and divas, what to do?!

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Powder and liquid eyeshadow together as a duo!

2008-05-08T00:58:48Z

I have two eyeshadows that go really well together as far as their color goes, but one one is a powder shadow and the other a liquid shadow. I am having trouble getting them to play nice together, if I apply the powder first then the liquid just makes it clump and streak! Is there a specific way this is supposed to be handled/applied? Any suggestions?

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laser hair removal

2008-05-06T04:54:15Z

I got my first session of laser hair removal (went to Neoskin in SF, which came recommended by a friend), and I have some questions as it has only started coming loose a couple of weeks later.

I know the process takes a few sessions to get full results but I'm unclear on something- is it like waxing where you remove it all completely, then the dormant follicles grow back hair, and you remove those 6 weeks later (or whatever the timing is for dormant hair)?

Or is it that each session works only on some of the active follicles and leaves others with hair still in them, and you just get 'thinned' hair after the first sessions and have to go multiple times to get it thinner and thinner?

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unbelievable discovery for myself happy dance

2008-05-05T16:53:47Z

Diva friends,
I was surfing the 'net one day and found a site about cleansing your face with oil. The homemade recipe was olive oil and castor oil mixed together in a certain percentage for your type of skin. I've been so bummed and upset about my skin and getting older isn't helping matters at all! So I decided to mix a 70%/30% mix of olive oil and castor oil (more olive than castor) for oily skin and followed the directions to the hilt and low and behold.....my skin looks 1000% better and the best thing is that it's calmed down the redness in my rosacea skin! I absolutely couldn't believe it. No blackheads, no whiteheads, no milia, my bumps are going away slowly but I can tell they are not as big as they were and my skin looks so much better to me. I will have to find the link to pass this on, but if you google "oil cleansing method" it's either the first or second entry. I don't know if will work on everyone, but it sure worked for me. Mom was right, she always cleansed her face with this stuff that was oil based and she had great looking skin way into her early 90s before she became ill. I'm just one happy camper about my face!

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did anyone see the article about lip glosses?

2008-05-05T16:02:44Z

I can't find the link at the moment, but yesterday on the internet there was an article relating lip glosses to skin cancer. There didn't seem to be any scientific evidence of the link, but it basically it said that wearing lipgloss in the sun magnifies the sun's rays and damage your lips. The article went on and recommended using a lip balm with an SPF in it. One lady that claimed she had to have treatments for her skin cancer on her lips uses a lip balm with an SPF of 50.
Like I said, I can't find the link right now, but I'm sure that someone else can. Something to think about I guess

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cruelty free deodorant that works???

2008-05-04T22:50:19Z

i'm frantically searching for a cruelty free deodorant for myself and teen daughter.
we've tried about everthing in that range and no go, natural just doesn't work...especially for active, stressed out hormonal teens!

anyone here using a cruelty free (non tested on animals) product that actually WORKS???
please share!

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Bring it, Divas!

2008-05-03T21:56:54Z

So tomorrow (Sat) night I'm going to a "80's Rock Band Costume Party". I'm dressing (mostly, doing my hair like) Alannah Myles. ((It was hard to find a rocker~type chick that wasn't Madonna or Joan Jett to model after)) ;)

*****Girls, please help me out with the make-up!*****

Any pics you can post would be greatly appreciated!!!!

THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!!

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(Real) Hair Extensions

2008-05-03T18:00:50Z

I just had 3 hours and 22 inches worth of hair extensions put in a week ago and I couldn't be happier with the result! Matching my natural color wasn't so easy, but we found one that was close and then dyed my hair lightly to match the extensions. The first day was weird and I ended up going back for more of a trim to blend my own hair in a little better.

Anyway, I feel so sexy and beautiful with this one simple procedure. My own hair is curly and auburn and tends to only grow to a certain length (my upper bra line) and I've wanted really long hair ever since I had it cut off at the age of 11. Now I have it again and I am ecstatic. It;s so fun to put up or let it all go curly (and my own hair is nearly identical tot eh extensions regarding curl factor) or braid or whatever. And since I let it go naturally curly now (something I fought sometimes before) I have a great hair day everyday now.

Not so crazy about how much 'hair' I lose everyday, but it's for a good cause.

-K

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dried and cracked

2008-05-03T12:47:51Z

Hello, I'm new to this tribe. I'm hoping someone knows a cure. The corners of my mouth and down a little it is so dry that on one side i ended up getting a big deep cut. I have tried different salves and it isn't clearing up. Help . It is really uncomfortable. thank you.

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Eye cream for young folks

2008-05-01T16:26:17Z

There are so many eye creams out there targeted at reversing aging. Are there any that are good for preventing? I started using eye cream about 2 years ago (I'm now 26) and I still haven't settled on one I love. I like rich and creamy because that skin does flake a lot on me if I don't treat it kindly enough. I've tried ROC (didn't like the tube--its made of metal and got holes in it before I was even halfway through the tube), Loreal preventage (liked it ok, not sure what was in it though) and neutragena (a bit too thin for my liking).

I also have dark circles caused by blue veins, so anything with cooling/calming properties is nice too.

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Egyptian Sugaring (instead of waxing)

2008-04-30T15:38:56Z

I decided to give this a try cuz I'm just tried of always getting razor rash between my legs and I don't have the funds for waxing. Anyway, I founda recipe that seems to be tried and tested, and I followed the directions exactly, but it still didn't give me a strong enough adhesive quality to successfully remove any hair.

Just curious as to whether anyone else has tried this and if you've had better results?

-K

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Carmindy's New line of Natural Beauty Products!!!!

2008-04-29T20:44:41Z

Carmindy, from "What not to Wear" has her own line of products. I've been wondering what she was using on the recent shows. There was a powder in a beautiful pale green container with a puff on the bottom of the top of the container. It's her translucent powder.

Her line has no parabens and is affordable.

I'm off to Walgreens.

Ann

"I have great news for you all! I have officially launched my new product line Sally Hansen Natural Beauty inspired by Carmindy.

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Natural Beauty is totally paraben-free and filled with natural anti-oxidants and botanicals. Each and every product works seamlessly together to deliver the flawless look and feel you have always wanted. You won’t believe how fresh and light Natural Beauty is and how easy it is to apply.

I am using only this new line on our 6th season of What Not To Wear and the results have been breathtaking. It works on any woman, no matter her age or skin type and I have never seen such stellar results. This is the line I have always dreamed of creating and now it’s a reality and available in drugstores across the entire country.

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Fast Fix Eye Shadow Base. This is a perfect base to even out discolored lids and keep eye shadows in place all day.

Fast Fix Concealer in “All Over Brightner”. Amazing for bouncing light under the eyes getting rid of dark circles and signs of fatigue. This product is my best friend!

Fast Fix Concealer in “Neutralizer”. Perfect for rosacea, just dab it on and eliminate redness in the most natural way.

Truly Translucent Loose Powder. A micro-milled fine powder that erases shine and sets makeup naturally. With a built-in puff right in the cap it’s never messy and always delivers just the right amount.

Sheerest Cream Blush. This is the most soft, sheer and natural way to flush those cheeks. Never oily or streaky the color looks fresh all day.
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wen hair products

2008-04-28T04:52:40Z

I just read about it in a magazine, has anyone tried it? It seems pricey for a shampoo.

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Mask Sheets

2008-04-26T21:15:54Z

Hello Divas,

Has anyone tried any of the mask sheets out there? I was given a collagen mask sheet, made by The Face Shop:
http://www.thefaceshopen.com/skin/product_detail.php?pCate1=11&pCate2=1&pCategory=275
My skin loved it, even tho I realize collagen is animal derived. :/ I emailed the company to get the ingredient list. Its from Korea and can't get it locally. Are there any others that you've tried that you like? Pros? Cons?

Thanks!
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My first facial

2008-04-25T23:37:49Z

I went yesterday and had a European Facial at my friend's school where she is studying to be a manicurist. Now I have nice skin and normally think that I can do at home care and look fine. But WOW the difference a professional facial made was amazing!

My skin tone is more even, all the dry and oily patches are now one uniform texture, and no more blemishes. My face feels 5 years younger.

I highly recommend this little treat for yourself, especially as we come out of Winter and you want to have a fresh face for Spring. I bet there is a local beauty school near you that you can afford. Very very much worth every penny and I'll be doing that more often.

anyone else have such great (or not so great) results from a facial?

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enlarged oil glands on face

2008-04-25T18:16:32Z

Has anyone had any experience with enlarged oil glands on their face, particularly around their nose? If so, what did you do about them?

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"Shine Happy"?

2008-04-24T04:16:56Z

or whatever it's called. There's a product in the hair dye section that's clear- supposedly a no-color shine treatment that acts like a permenant color- but it's just gloss. Has anyone tried it?
I bought it once and didn't have noticeable result, but that might be secondary to how i used it. I have really fine hair so normally when i color, i can take the color+developer and just use half. When i did this with the shine stuff i didn't see any difference. I know several manufactures make this kind of product ("Jazz" "Shine Happy"). Anyone else used it?

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Aveda on the cheap?

2008-04-23T02:15:05Z

I recently tried my friend's shampoo/conditioner: Aveda's sap moss. But even hunting around on ebay it looks like it's ~65$ for conditioner and ~40$ for shampoo (the liter size). Anyone have any suggestions, or any comparable but cheap substitutes they like?

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fighting frizz

2008-04-22T00:03:02Z

My hair is fine and blond, and I seem to constantly battle frizziness. Are there any low-cost deep conditioners, sprays, home remedies--anything that really works to help fight frizz? I usually blow-dry everyday (bad, I know)--and soon I'm going to try rag curls (done overnight) to stop blow-drying and prevent heat damage. What can I do now to smooth the frizz down and make my damaged locks look soft and shiny (not limp and greasy)?

Thanks for any help!!

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Lash Power mascara

2008-04-21T06:58:02Z

I tried some Clinique Lash Power mascara. It is cry proof, watery eye proof, raccoon eye proof, does NOT budge AND.......you remove it with warm water. Of course, I had to try some to see if it worked. Well......it does! I have watery eyes in the winter and allergies and my mascara didn't budge an inch. When I got ready to take it off, i used warm water like they said and yes, every bit of it comes off. It will not come off with a eye makeup remover. This stuff is amazing. I layer it over a lash primer and it's great. Just wanted to share.

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$1 Makeup

2008-04-21T00:58:44Z

Apparently the make-up line E.L.F. ( Eyes, Lips, and Face) has been
bought out by Nordstrom and will be re-packaged with the Nordstrom
name on it. They are getting rid of all the make-up in ELF packaging.
They are selling everything for $1. You do have to pay shipping.

http://www.eyeslipsface.com/shop.asp

If you spend $15 and put in the CAROLINA code, you
get half off your order so it pays for shipping.

Disclaimer: I have not had a chance to look into this yet... so forgive me if it's not good makeup.. Just thought I'd share the info with the divas!!

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Lip Gloss... that lasts

2008-04-20T06:02:45Z

Just wanted to share a tidbit.

I've never been a real "lip gloss" kind of girl. The closest thing I've ever used are those 2-part superstay lipsticks that come with a gloss topper for shine. Those are fine. But regular lip gloss? Nope. It seems to vanish about 10 minutes after it's applied.

Until this one.

I now have 3 different colors of L'Oreal's Infallible 6-hour lip gloss. I bought 1, just to try. I liked it so much I bought 2 more in different colors. I tend to like those with a shimmer so I have "fiery" (red with gold shimmer), "raisin" (a shimmery plum) and "modern mauve" (a shimmery pink). ALL of these 3 shades are sheer enough to wear during the day in an office and also have enough shimmer to look nice at night. And I don't know how it works, but this stuff really does CLING to your lips.

I'm now a gloss convert! Well, for this one anyway.

Just thought I'd share this tidbit.

~S~

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any suggestions for balancing hormones after the pill?

2008-04-19T18:09:24Z

Hoping for suggestions....

I got off hormonal BC in the begining of feb and holy fuck my body is pissed. I got a copper IUD and it's been a pretty easy adjustment so far... Minimal spoting and cramping etc., but I feel crazy. read: depressed, fatigued, emotional and super bitchy.

I've heard it can take months to detox off the pill and I'm wondering what sort of supplement/ diet/ alternative treatments might speed it up and help me balance out faster. I've got the drink lots of water and get plenty of sleep bit, I'm needing something a bit more proactive and a lot quicker.

Thanks in advance.

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Haircolor question.

2008-04-17T19:44:04Z

Okay, I have dyed my hair SO many times, that I should know the answer to this, but I figured I'd ask anyhow : ). I used my usual temp red dye for the fall/winter, and this time it's stained my previously professionally highlighted hair pretty permanently. Normally, I go and get high/lowlights to go back to my natural blonde color in the spring, but I can't pop for the 150-ish bucks right now. Soooooo, if I try to dye it back to blonde with over-the-counter color, am I going to be able to get the red out, or am I just going to end up strawberry blonde? I don't want to attempt to weave/highlight it myself, so I was just thinking to do an all over color. I just don't know if I can go back to my natural 8N, or if I need to go darker to cover the red (which is faded, but still quite present).

Any advice on color, or product/brand, or anything? Thanks, Divas : ).

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Dandruff help?

2008-04-16T16:36:32Z

I need help! I've had a serious case of dandruff for a few months now and I need tips on how to make it go away. I've tried the over-the-counter shampoo "remedies" and it's still not better. In fact, I could swear that the flakes have gotten bigger. And, honestly, I'd prefer a non-chemical solution anyway. In case it helps, I currently wash my hair every other day (if I do it more often than that it gets really dry) and I only blow dry it once a week at the most. I don't use any styling products when I don't blow dry my hair (which is most days).

I am SO self-conscious about it - I'm convinced that everyone can see it - and I just want it to go away... Any ideas/thoughts on what causes dandruff (because maybe I'm shooting myself in the foot somehow)? Any suggestions, divas, on how to get rid of it?

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Help! My face is itching!

2008-04-14T11:09:31Z

My face is itching and it's so uncomfortable! It started Tuesday and has continued. There are no bumps, just red. I have gotten some new products, but I'm not even real sure that is what it is. It could be just about anything, even something I have eaten. What can I do? It will be months before my dermatologist can see me.

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WHERE can I get the aspirin cream thing?

2008-04-13T19:18:51Z

To take off the layer of skin so I can fix the ingrown hairs from waxing (took you girls to tell me what the problem was), I was recommended to get the cream which is essentially topical aspirin (whose name eludes me). WHAT is it called, and where can I get it? My local pharmacist just looked at me like I was nuts...or maybe it was the stage makeup.

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Cystic Acne

2008-04-13T07:43:46Z

Do you have any remedies for it???

I'm 30 (well, close enough!) and the acne I have is getting WORSE ! ! OMG, I don't know what to do... I know lots of water helps (which I do drink plenty of...) but I read these ideas online; what do you think?? What do you use / have you used?

Already I use mineral makeup, wash & tone morning & evening ((religiously))......... I'm at wits end...

Any input is sooo appreciated!!! ~C

1. Put toothpaste on your pimple before you go to bed, should help reduce swelling overnight. Make sure it is the paste not the gel. Any brand should do.

2. Dab egg white on your pimple and leave on for at least 20 minutes preferably overnight, this is supposed to "Suck Out" the "Nasty Stuff"

3. Wash your face twice a day in warm salty water. This should leave your face oil free without aggravating the acne like soap.

4. Ice down the acne before bed, by morning it should be noticeably better. Works best on larger pimples that have not yet formed a head. Because it is a method of reducing the swelling and helping the acne "re-absorb" it should prevent scarring.

5. First wash face and then dab acne with cotton balls soaked in vinegar.

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Sephora "false eyelashes" in a wand?

2008-04-10T14:17:10Z

I forget the name of it, saw an ad for it on the subway...anyone know about this or try it? I wear contacts so I'm a little leery about putting fibers on my lashes, but dang I am sick of eyelash glue...especially when it gets goopy..ew...anyone?

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Another Bare Escentuals Product I can't live without!

2008-04-08T07:34:39Z

"Prime Time" by Bare Escentuals. It is amazing!!!!!

I used just a tiny bit on my hand to see how it effects wrinkles (I cook for a living so my hands are a great place to test products as they're at least 10 years older than the rest of me) and OH MY GAWD! It smoothed the surface of my skin without any oily residue. I went ahead and bought some and I will never, NEVER go without this product now. If I had the money I would invest stock in it. It's THAT amazing.

-K

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eye cream/moisturizer for divas over 40

2008-04-08T01:02:03Z

For some reason, my usual eye cream has quit working and I'm hunting for a new one. I'm looking for something (matters not whether it's dept store brand or drugstore brand) that diminishes the looks of lines and wrinkles, brightens and gives great moisture to the eye area. I'm a diva over 40 so any ideas for that age group would be appreciated!

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Keeping dyed red hair red?

2008-04-07T16:02:46Z

Hello Divas,
Recently went from very light blond to red but I noticed it washed out on the ends. I know to try and prolong washing it, washing in cool water with color safe shampoo. What else can I do? I think I'm looking for a shampoo or some hair product that adds a little red. Anyone have a juicy product secret? If this helps: my color is ION called Light Copper Red.
thanks!!

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skincare for cancer patients?

2008-04-04T17:50:29Z

I was watching a show that mentioned some skincare products for cancer patients and wondered if anyone has heard of these.

Please tell me about your experiences and if they sound good, as my Mom has had a lot of skin issues from having chemo treatments.

Some of the side effects from cancer treatment is known as Palmar Plantar Erythrodysesthesia (PPE), Hand Foot Syndrome is a common side effect to certain types of chemotherapy. Patients may find that their hands and feet will become red and irritated, then will begin to crack and peel. My mom’s face looks like it was hit with shrapnel, cuts everywhere. The skin on her hands – mostly the fingertips has split open and she wears bandages on them. Her all over skin is very dry. We (my sisters) keep trying to find products that would help heal and rehydrate.

Lindi skincare http://www.lindiskin.com/products/products.html

News episode http://www.nbc5.com/stroke/11441163/detail.html

Thank you!

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Translucent Powder Foundation

2008-04-04T13:22:25Z

I'm 27 and just getting into the diva thing. I don't really wear foundation that often because I have "problem skin" that breaks out if I even glance in the direction of someone with zits on their face.

Since I'm not a pro, I don't really know how to match my skin tone when I buy powder and everyone keeps telling me to just go for translucent, but what exactly is translucent though? If it's see through, what is the point of using it as foundation?

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info from a "Sephora spy"

2008-03-31T22:26:33Z

article on Jezebel from a "Sephora spy" on lip plumpers, mineral makeup, and oil cleansers:
http://jezebel.com/373540/mineral-makeup-lip-plumpers-oil-cleansers-colonics-sephora-spy-spills-all-and-more
the comments have helpful into as well.

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Discoloration/Acne Marks

2008-03-28T16:31:10Z

Hi,
Are there any good products to help discoloration and dark spots from old acne? I finally got my skin under control (almost breakout free now) but i have some discoloration (on forehead and cheeks) from sun exposure and some dark dots from old pimples (around hairline and chin). Have you tried any good products? What about microdermabrasion - would that help?
Thank you,
Iveta

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Lifecell

2008-03-25T08:26:17Z

I doubt I'd spend $189 on a cream (retirement and children's education are more pressing!), but I'd like to try something new and I came across Lifecell. Anybody tried it? Their website is lurid: http://www.lifecellskin.com/

Another site recommends it: http://www.bestantiwrinklecreamreviews.com/reviews-of-anti-wrinkle-creams

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Baking Soda

2008-03-25T05:37:09Z

Someone mentioned (here or on the Homemade tribe; I couldn't find the thread again) about shampooing with baking soda & how it works for flakes. So I tried it. And it worked!! ::yay::

But it was messy and took a while. The recommendation was to "make a paste with water" - I tried, but couldn't get more that a runny mess... :)

I'm considering adding it to shampoo ~ do you think this is a bad idea? It seems like mild stuff, but I'm no chemist and the last thing I need is to set off an active ingredient and come out of the shower bald.

What are other uses for baking soda? Do you brush your teefs with it?

The fact that you can use this stuff for indigestion as well as clean your stove with it, well, that just amazes me ;)

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Dancers Wanted

2008-03-24T22:26:04Z

I am looking for friendly & patient semi-professional belly dancers and/or fire performers for a dance company. Age between 21-37. Dancers must provide thier own costmes. Absolutely no egos or drama allowed. If interested contact Evil Raven. We are located in the San Gabriel Valley area in CA

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doc bronners for the face

2008-03-23T16:15:13Z

does anyone here use doctor bronners as your face wash? i was wondering how drying it is. i'm going to be backpacking in asia for several months and i'm trying to keep my pack light, so products that do double (or triple) duty are great. it would be nice not to have to carry a separate facial wash. i'm going to do a DB test on my face for the next few weeks but thought i'd see what other peoples' experiences were too.

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multi purpose hand sanitizer

2008-03-22T16:36:10Z

I made a discovery and I'm not sure whether it's good or bad (probably bad) about GermX hand sanitizer. It removes marker off of laminated materials and removes hair color that stains the face or fingers. I'm not talking about water based markers, I'm talking magic markers or sharpies. I keep this in my classroom when I need to remove marker writing on things I need to keep and then when my hairdresser colors my hair, it cleans me right up. The other brands don't do this, just Germ-X. Just thought I'd pass this along.

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New Tribe!!!

2008-03-22T08:07:10Z

I have created a new tribe specificaly for west coast swing and I would love to see all of you there.

This group is for all those westies out there who need/want someplace to get together and talk about anything and everything West Coast Swing. Including events in local areas, clubs, workshops, competition, carpooling to and from events, costumes, opinions, music, shoes, Instructors, schools, classes, patterns, basics, etc.. From Beginners to Champions and everything inbetween. This is a forum to help grow and connect the West Coast Swing community.

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product for short, wavy hair

2008-03-21T05:30:25Z

I went through chemo last year, lost my hair, and it's come back quite different. It's grown out about 2 inches or so from the last buzz. Way thicker and wavier than the baby-fine, thin long, with a bit of body hair I had before, now it's darn near bozo-like in the morning. I've been using a little extra conditioner and/or gel to make it hold a part and look more betty-boop-like. What works, does anything last through getting sweaty dancing? Is there anything that won't make my hair untouchable?

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Oversized bindis

2008-03-17T18:56:01Z

Big Ass Bindis are now available at my Etsy shop, check 'em out!

www.BigAssBindis.etsy.com

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Eye Jewels?

2008-03-16T02:47:39Z

This looks painful

http://minutillo.com/steve/weblog/2004/4/7/jewel-eye

Would you wear one?

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Tan and Blond, that's what I want...but with plants, and homemade recipes

2008-03-16T00:01:52Z

The blond will come out of a jar, I love being a blond, need a little help. But does anyone have any ideas for making a tanning solution similar to self-tanning products? Using plants, or minerals, or something good for the skin?

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Electrolysis or Laser?

2008-03-15T23:10:05Z

I just saw a little ad offering Electrolysis for $90/hour. Thinking about doing it!
I shave pretty much everything below the neck, so I'm sure it will be a long-term process.

I want to know if any of you have done either laser or electrolysis. How long did it take for the results you wanted? How much did each treatment cost and how many treatments did you require? What are the advantages of one (laser/elec) over the other? Is it the affordability, the effectiveness, or the pain factor?

Let me know if this has already been covered!

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razor rash

2008-03-11T18:27:06Z

I never had a problem with this til recently. Not sure what to do to minimize it or eliminate it entirely and would love some suggestions..

I already use lotion rather than soap or shaving cream, and it helps a bit. I also loofah the area to ward off ingrown hairs, and use desitin after shaving, which also helps a bit, but not enough.

-K

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Nail Polish

2008-03-11T17:46:05Z

I was looking through all of my nail polishes and wondered, "Does nail polish get old?". I know when it gets clumpy that it is pretty old. What if you have had one for years? Is that too long?

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This may be a stupid question, but...

2008-03-09T07:06:51Z

hot compress? People mention using it in connection with all sorts of beauty ailments, but I'm not quite sure what they're talking about. Is it like a super-hot washcloth on the area or something?

I feel silly for asking... just goes to show how much I have yet to learn in beaing a beauty diva :)

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human hair extensions care

2008-03-06T18:35:20Z

I just bought some clip in human hair extensions (Remy brand), and I'm wondering how to take care of them so they last as long as possible (they were pricey!). Any of you divas have tips on how to maintain your hair extensions? I know I'm supposed to condition them since they don't receive any of my scalp's natural oils, but do they need more than just a coat of plain old rinse-out conditioner? A friend recommended hair oil (ethnic), but I'm not sure what to do with that. Do I coat it and leave it on after rinsing out plain old conditioner? Do I wash the oil out before styling it? Maybe just a spray on conditioner enough to protect it from heat styling tools like curlers or blow dryers?
So many questions! Advice is much appreciated :-) Thanks!

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Has anyone used the Juice Beauty Organics skin care line?

2008-03-04T20:03:55Z

I've recently stumbled across Juice Beauty Organics and I am curious if there is anyone here who has tried them. Reviews look pretty great and there are no parabens or icky chemicals in them but they are a bit pricey in my budget these days, just wondering if you like them or found there products effective.

I'm most interested in the Green Apple Peel and the Green Apple Antioxidant Serum.

Thanks!

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really, really resilient pimple

2008-03-03T07:43:36Z

sorry for the icky TMI here. ;) I have this ridiculously resilient blemish that won't disappear entirely.

A few weeks ago I got one of those horrific monster pimples. The kind that sprouted out of nowhere overnight and you wake up with this huge angry red thing on your face that you can't even conceal with makeup. When 8hr spot treatment was having no effect I used a hot compress and that made a world of difference. It seemed to draw out the irritation, removed the icky head and reduced the swelling considerably. I did that a few times during the day, along with spot treatment and got rid of most of the pimple.

The problem is that it won't fully go away. I still have this red mark and slight swelling, like the way a very small blemish or a blemish-to-be looks. I've tried salicylic acid, I've tried sulfatol gel, gentle soap, astringent, exfoliating, leaving it alone... nothing seems to have any effect. And it's been 2 or 3 weeks now. Any suggestions on what I can do to get rid of it?

Worth noting:
I have rosacea and seborrheic dermatitis and eczema (all of which I have creams for). Most of which are kept pretty under control and I can go for many months without a flareup since moving to the southwest. However, due to the high stress lately and the change of seasons here (winter to spring messes with me particularly badly) my skin has been on full-on crazy mode for the past month. For example, I haven't had to touch my eczema cream for probably 9+ months previously, but have had to use it twice in the past day. I also just had my period, which contributed to the skin issues.

Also worth noting that a dermatologist or doctor visit is not an option right now, due to money issues. So I need a home remedy or over-the-counter solution.

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Nono at hoem laser hair remover!

2008-03-03T02:47:26Z

I saw thsi in Sephora and was SO EXCITED. And it's hot pink, my favorite :) A friend of a friend has it and says you can't do sensitive areas, like your face or bikini line. Has anyone here tried it? What are the results? How do you like it?

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Ionic Blow Dryers?

2008-03-02T07:38:34Z

I would like to eventually invest in a hair dyer that is sturdy and reliable. I have seen the ionic ceramic ones, and my hairdresser has a really cool one with a jewel for an on switch. What's good out there? Should I try to get my hands on a pro dryer, or are the drug store models good enough? If so, which ones? Did I ask enough questions? : )

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Pond's Dry Skin Cream

2008-02-29T10:15:24Z

OMG! not organic, not natural (has mineral oil in it for goodness sake)

my wacky sensitive skin loves this stuff-----go figure

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Face masks

2008-02-28T20:33:43Z

Every Thursday my finance goes to his dart tournaments at a local watering hole. Which means I get the whole house to myself for the night. I usually take the opportunity to do all my girlie things like facial masks, eyebrows clean up and so on.

Do you girls have a good face mask reccomendation??? Something that will clean, and add moisture, but not grease?

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Tea Tree Aloe Gel

2008-02-28T20:00:32Z

Hiya Divas! I've never used moisturizers. My skin is wicked~oily and moisturizers never work for me... But since I'm 30 now I decided I want to start using *something*. I found this aloe gel by Jason - has anyone used this before? I'm interested in long term use and improvements I can look forward to :) Thanks!!

Tea Tree Soothing Gel
Nature's Soothing Relief with Arnica and Marigold

Our unique, alcohol-free Gels have been bestsellers for years. JASON Tea Tree Gel combines natureⳠfinest natural antiseptic, Australian Tea Tree Oil, with moisturizing Aloe Vera, cooling Witch Hazel and selected Herbal Extracts. Obtain quick relief from itchy insect bites, shaving nicks and other minor irritations. As always, consult your health provider if a condition worsens or persists or if you have questions

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Washing Makeup Brushes...

2008-02-28T17:38:59Z

It's sad, really. I'm nearly thirty, and haven't ever heard of, or learned how to wash makeup brushes. The visual image I get is dunking them in soapy water like you would with your dishes, but is this right? Wouldn't it take several days for the brushes to dry?

Even though I'm in my late 20's, I STILL get breakouts, regardless of whatever cleansing routine I use. I hope that learning how to do this will help solve the problem.

Can someone tell me how to do this? Is there a different method for different types of brushes?

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Eye Creams: what makes a good one, which one do you like?

2008-02-28T05:17:31Z

I'm in the market for a eye cream.
I'm starting to research what a good one is?

I'm looking to prevent lines and help tired eyes.

I've noticed creams that have Vitamin C, E, K
I don't know where to even start with research

What works for you? Which products suck?

Any info on the eye cream topic to share?

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Streaking Naturally Black Hair

2008-02-27T22:45:04Z

OK, Divas... here's a tough one..

My hair is naturally black, w/ some silver woven in, especially at the temples. It's long (below shoulder blades at longest point) w/ some long layers & soft bangs... fine, fairly wavy, fairly abundant. Pretty healthy, as long as I take care of it, & get it trimmed every 2 or 3 mnths.
Tends to be dry, & I moisturize the heck out of it. I frequently use neem shampoos & conditioners, & some richer conditioner from the ears down. I use a bit of Aveda Be Curly Leave In to strengthen & thicken it. For clarifying, a little baking soda mixed w/ plenty of water, & then rinsed well before shampooing- works great. (Clarifying stuff is a rip-off).

I don't do too much to stress it, styling wise. Mostly just blow dry & briefly style the hair around my face w/ a decent ionic dryer. Almost never use sprays, gels, etc. Except for a bit of indigo cellophaning, & a couple of henna experiments in the 80's, I've never colored it- I love my natural color.
So, anyway, that's the base I'm working w/.

I would LOVE to weave in some deep purple streaks- it's my best color, & goes w/ everything I wear. Makes my eyes look greener, too...
I ignorantly assumed that the lighter gray hairs would pick up dye a lot more easily than my black color, thinking I could finally easily add some lovely fun streaks. Imagine my disappointment when I found out that was soooooo not gonna happen...

The dilemma is, is that I really don't want to strip my hair, to get a few purple streaks in there. Is there any way to avoid that? It's OK if they're kinda subtle, but I would like them to be visible.
The other thing is, is that my skin is pretty sensitive. I'd love to avoid really heavy chemicals & strongly scented products, but realize that I'm not going to be able to go all natural w/ this process...
I should add that I'm OK w/ all the silver hairs not being covered, especially at the temples. They look pretty good w/ my dark hair.

Is this a pipe dream? Would I have to strip my hair to get some violet or eggplant streaks? Should I just give it up & slowly silver into that good night?

I'm OK w/ having a stylist do this... I just need to know what to ask for. They always want me to go w/ the usual caramel streaks they like to put in dark hair, & that's definitely NOT me. Would clash w/ my pale skin, & the colors I wear, too.

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Best of BSFD!

2008-02-26T21:55:13Z

What are the best tips you've gotten, used, and had success with from this tribe?

Mine are:

- metal eyebrow/lash brush from Sonia Kashuk at Target. The metal wires work far better than plastic ones.

- using anti-perspirant/ deoderant "down there" after shaving to prevent inflammation

- finding out I could never afford hair extensions (sad, but good to know)

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Bling Bandages??

2008-02-26T13:37:20Z

Oh for heavens sake... what will they think of next?

http://www.popgadget.net/2008/02/blinged_out_ban.php

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Facial Exfoliate

2008-02-25T22:30:45Z

I am trying to find a good face exfoliate. Anyone have any suggestions? I wash my face with proactive. It's the only thing that I have found to prevent me from breaking out. I exfoliate the rest of my body but my face feels left out.

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Lip Stains

2008-02-24T18:16:10Z

I'm looking for a great garnet-coloured lip stain that is kiss-proof...Is there such a thing? I hate wearing lipstick but want the effect of beautifully red lips. Any brand recommendations? Something that won't fade if I put lip balm over it?

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Butt bleaching for the (m)asses

2008-02-23T07:14:18Z

This was featured in Daily Candy this morning:
http://www.dailycandy.com/everywhere/article/34964/BungGlow+8

No further comment from me.

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Cosmetic Surgery revisited

2008-02-23T00:57:17Z

It looks like I may soon have the opportunity to get some cosmetic surgery myself. It's always been way out of my budget and my personal principles have gone back and forth and forth and back over and over again. However, I just picked up a personal chef client who happens to be a plastic surgeon and when I pseudo-jokingly suggested we work out a trade, he responded quite favorably.

Anyway, here's the deal. I'm in the process of losing weight. I've already lost about 12 lbs and want to lose 15 more, which would put me at 135 lbs at 5'7. I want to keep my curves and I have no desire to go back to the skinny waif I was before I had four kiddo's. However, the more weight that I lose the more extra skin I create. And my boobs are shrinking as well. I was an ample "C" cup, and am now a small "C" cup, probably soon to be a "B", but again there's the extra skin issue. Like I'm deflating....*sigh*

So, along with the tummy tuck I'd like to get (to get rid of the extra skin), I'm considering a boob job. But, I have a good friend who had one and she says her nipples are no longer sensitive at all. And well...I LOVE having sensitive nipples! I want to look good, sure...but I want to FEEL good, too. So, I'm curious as to anyone here that might've had breast implants and didn't lose any sensation. Is there a method to prevent that, or is it just a random thing dependent on the individual as well as the expertise of the surgeon?

-K

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cleaning jewelry

2008-02-22T05:55:22Z

I need some suggestions for thoroughly cleaning/disinfecting jewelry. I bought a necklace/earring set on ebay from India and while I love the pieces am a little nervous about putting studs from a country with a high rate of hepatitis infection through my pierced ears. Any suggestions on cleaning?

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Alternative for Proactive?

2008-02-21T13:32:27Z

I use to wash with Proactive Solution daily.. I loved it... aside from the first week of ultimatly dry skin, the weeks following usually evened out my face and kept it clean and clear!

But alas, the cost got the better of me, I simply couldn't afford $50 a month. So I tried other facial washes with no success.

I just recently found "Klear Action" in the store... supposably it's a generic version of Proactive. Has anybody tried this? It's $30 cheaper than Proactive, which is a big plus, but I am tired of buying different cleaners. Just wondering if anybody here has actually tried it?

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post-waxing ingrown hair treatment

2008-02-21T10:41:27Z

i saw a fashion magazine suggest using a product containing salicylic acid to help treat ingrown hairs that develop after waxing. i normally exfoliate using a scrubby glove in the shower, but this only helps a little bit. so i recently started using this neutrogena acne lotion on my bikini line to help with the ingrown hairs and bumps that accompany them, and it is really helping to prevent ingrown hairs and treat those annoying and long-lasting red marks that accompany them (especially after you pull the hair out with a tweezer). i especially like that it's a gentle, moisturizing formula that doesn't cause irritation to sensitive skin, perfect for using in the bikini area, as opposed to most salicylic acid products which contain alcohol. i scoured the drugstore shelves to discover this product and was pleased to see it get such a good writeup on http://www.cosmeticscop.com :

Neutrogena Oil-Free Acne Stress Control 3-in-1 Hydrating Acne Treatment ($7.99 for 2 ounces)

Why we love it: Along with Clearasil Daily Blackhead Control Pads with Natural Sea Salt ($7.99 for 80 pads) and Olay Total Effects Anti-Aging Anti-Blemish Daily Moisturizer ($18.99 for 1.7 ounces), this is the only well-formulated BHA product at the drugstore. It contains 2% salicylic acid along with anti-irritants and antioxidants. Find it!

What we said: Gets Neutrogena back into the BHA game, and it’s about time! Most of their previous BHA products either contained irritating ingredients (particularly alcohol and menthol) or had a pH that was too high for effective exfoliation to take place. This version’s pH of 3.4 comes in a nearly weightless silicone base that includes antioxidants and anti-irritants. Although the inclusion of fragrance and coloring agents is a slight disappointment, it’s a relief that Neutrogena omitted menthol or its derivatives, making this an all-around ideal BHA lotion for skin of any type battling blemishes.

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Hot rollers?

2008-02-21T04:01:00Z

Anyone use these to curl/wave short hair? Any advice on a particular type or brand that works well?

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toner?

2008-02-19T22:29:57Z

I dont do much to my face.. aside from washing in the morning- and drinking lots of water. I use a mineral makeup.. but no moisturizer or toner before applying. I just learned today from speaking to a colleague that Toner closes your pores (which is probably very necessary before the makeup clogs them)

Any suggestions for a good toner?

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Ojon

2008-02-17T02:58:59Z

I just wanted to share with you lovely ladies (and gents, if you're out there!) my excitement about this product!

A friend introduced it to me, and while I have only used the Restorative Hair Treatment, I am very satisfied with the results. I can't wait to try the shampoo/conditioner.

I have curly, frizzy hair and Ojon is the only thing that controls the most severe frizz and fly-aways. It smells good and when I use it as a deep conditioner and then wash it out, my hair is baby soft for a few days! It doesn't make my hair straight and shiny like in my fantasies but it controls the frizz like it says it does. :)

The smell is unusual. . . not unpleasant. . . but different. Kind of like fried peanut butter. It's kind of pricey (I get it at Sophora where a big container is around $50) but you don't use much and mine has lasted me pretty long (and I have a lot of hair!)

Anyone else try this product or anything else from the Ojon line?

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me and my IUD

2008-02-15T00:37:34Z

just got a mirena iud today. thought i'd post my experiences with it if you ladies would like to hear about it. i know when i was considering it, it helped to hear how people were experiencing their iuds and helped me to make an informed decision. and maybe i can help give an honest account of how it's affecting my body.

so, as far as the insertion goes....yes it did hurt. i said "ow, ow, ow....that hurts". but the painful parts (of which there were, like, 3 or 4 times of intense and sharper pain) each lasted for no longer than, say, 15 seconds, 20 at the most. i wasn't writhing in pain for hours and hours. the whole thing was over in 5 minutes. the things that hurt were this measuring device to make sure my cervix was deep enough for the iud to go into and then there was this device to hold the cervix open and then the actual insertion. those were the moments that it hurt the most. when everything was being removed (speculum, etc)....there was some bad cramping as the iud was "settling". i felt dizzy and slightly nauseous. all of this was not out of the ordinary. in fact, my doctor handled me and the whole experience so incredibly well. had me lie back, got a cold compress for my head and some cold water. after laying back for awhile (like 10 minutes) the iud settled in. i couldn't really feel it, but my body was sore from the poking and prodding. DO take ib profen before you do this. i did and it helped more with the body aching than the insertion pain. the whole appt was done in a half hour.

so, now it's 4 and a half hours later. i started cramping again (like intense period cramps) and had forgotten to take more ibprofen. after taking them, the cramps are subsiding. but this also is "normal". i can't say much yet about spotting because i am also currently on my period. they prefer you to either be on your period during the insertion (something about making sure you're not pregnant and also the cervix is a bit more dialated than usual).

my doctor has the same iud and has had it for 3 years. she is happy with it and was very encouraging for me to talk with her about any questions or concerns i had. which makes me feel great. also, i would recommend that people check with their insurance to see if it's covered or not. i have kaiser (i know....people hate hate hate it...) which i have never ever had a problem with and my iud was completely covered. i only payed a 25$ copay. that's it.....i had no idea and had been prepared to spend 300-400.

so....i can keep people updated on my experiences if anyone would like me to or would find it helpful.

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Dr. Bronner's as shampoo?

2008-02-14T22:27:15Z

As an experiment, last night I washed my hair with liquid Dr. Bronnor's peppermint soap. I am rather impressed with the results--thick, soft tresses with body. Has anyone else done this?

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retin-A

2008-02-13T17:53:45Z

just scored a script for .25 and never used it before. can i use this on just a few spots where wrinkles are starting or must it go all over the face?

too strong? should i request my doc to change to rennova?

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The evils of Petroleum jelly

2008-02-13T16:12:14Z

I use Vasaline Petroleum jelly on my eyes occasionally to remove really stubborn eye makeup.

I remember a friend telling me years ago that petroleum jelly was like the WORST thing ever to use but I don't remember why.

I'm assuming since I only use it once or week or so, it can't be that bad for me but I was wondering why exactly it's so terrible.

Can anyone enlighten me?

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Anyone with thoughts/experience with cervical caps?

2008-02-12T00:13:49Z

I'm realizing it is time to be off the pill. Some side effects are not worth the pay off.... like the fact I am pretty sure one of the reasons the pill is so effective is because it kills my desire to have sex in the first place!

I know there has been a lot of buzz about the IUD but I just don't feel it would be a good choice for me.... so, back to the barrier methods.

I am in a monogamous commited relationship, engaged infact. <YAY!> ...... And I have been looking around at some options.... the diaphram freaks me out.... it just seems like a huge thing to put up there to "not feel it durring intercourse" as they claim.... I'm intrigued by the cervical cap and I just haven't heard must about them at all. My partner is happy to be a part of whatever method we choose so I feel like we could get good at placement, <I hear this can be an issue>.... but any first hand experience? If this is too personal a forum and you feel more comfortable messaging me I would sure appreciate the insight..

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toner

2008-02-10T04:48:54Z

do you use toner? what does it do for you? what kind do you use?

thanks :)

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HomeHealth products

2008-02-08T17:31:19Z

Hiya, I discovered a new (to me) product line - HomeHealth. I've been using their Facial Cleansing Gel and like it. I was wondering if anyone has any feedback on the product or the maker.

They have a few products for psoriasis and eczema too...

Here's a link to their stuff on Vitacost http://www.vitacost.com/HomeHealth

What do you think?

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Hashmi Kohl- now with lead!

2008-02-07T05:20:01Z

Last night I was searching online for a new source for Hashmi Kohl & Kajal- which was a company that famously tooted their own horn about being lead free, and came upon this:
http://www.nyc.gov/html/doh/html/pr2007/pr027-07.shtml

So much for truth in advertising.

Does anyone have a recommendation for a kajal that comes in stick or pot form that really is lead free?

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The Master Cleanse Diet

2008-02-06T16:37:51Z

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Master_Cleanse

I used to do this for 3 days every few months back in my 20's. Then I got into having and raising kiddo's and neglected to keep up with it. Anyway, I decided to do it again 5 days ago, and this time I'm going for the full recommended 10 days! The first 3 are the hardest, which is why I didn't ever try for the full 10 days before. But this time around I discovered that day 4 and 5 could be fantastic as long as I could get through day 3. Day 3 is when your body really begins letting go of everything, and yes, I do mean EVERYTHING! Be sure to have a nearby bathroom at all times on day 3...nuf' said.

But now, at day 5, I feel fantastic! I did alter it a bit because my biggest gripe was in having no variety of flavor, so at night just before bed I've been having a cup of hot broth. Usually Bragg's Amino Acids and hot water. And in the morning I've been having a cup of hot tea (just couldn't give up my morning tea), which has turned out to be a good thing as it stimulates my bowels *just enough*. One of the not-so-wonderful side effects of this liquid based cleansing is that it can cause constipation, so a cup of hot tea just keep things moving right along.

Anyway, in 5 days I've lost 10 pounds! I actually lost 12, but gained back two because some of what I initially lost was just water weight. I also stepped up my exercise routine and have most likely replaced some of that lost weight with re-found muscle. I've lost many inches, but have chosen not to measure myself, preferring instead to let how my clothes fit determine where I'm at. I've received so much positive feedback and three close friends have also decided to try this after seeing how great I look and feel after just 5 days!

A few of the unseen benefits have been that I've lost all desire to drink alcohol (probably helping with weight loss as alcohol can pack on the pounds like you wouldn't believe!), and since I'm not drinking alcohol I haven't craved any cigarettes (I was one of those "only smoke when I drink" folks), and I feel much more mentally alert and my sleep schedule has stabilized to some degree. And well, I just feel good. I miss food, and will be grateful to partake of it again, but I don't feel hungry or tired or lacking in anything. Getting rid of all these toxins and inflated fat cells--and seeing the immediate results-- has motivated me to take much better care of myself in general and hopefully it will have at least a few lasting results.

-K

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How to use mineral foundations

2008-02-06T06:44:29Z

Thanks to all your recommendations I just got my free Everyday Minerals kit in the mail this weekend. The first two foundation colors I have tried look great on my skin thanks to their very good descriptions!

But, makeup novice, I am. Here's my question... What's the best way to get the foundation from those tiny little vessels onto my brush? I punctured the little dots on the inner plastic lid, but then what?

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Favorite eyeliner

2008-02-05T22:05:37Z

Hi. I'im mostly a lurker here and I do believe this topic has come up before. What's everyone's favorite and easily applied eyeliner. It's the middle of winter here in NY and I looking to pert myself up. Liquid eyeliner is not something I use all the time, but I used to. A maybelline liquid with an applicator usually works. But I'm looking for the best line, easiest to apply, newest incarnation. I have an idea that MAC gel liner would be worth trying. Any comments? Thanks.
Marcia

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Curls advice

2008-02-05T00:28:52Z

Due to a home coloring disaster I ended up cutting off all of my damaged hair and then having a body wave put in to control and boost my natural waves. I love my curly short hair but I haven't had a perm since the 80's. I need some up to date advice to help me care for my curls so that I will love them for a very long time while I grow my hair out again.

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Perricone, Hauschka, blah blah blah.

2008-02-04T19:09:27Z

Okay, so in looking at really nice facial moisturizer/anti-wrinkle/anti-dark-circle blah blah blah stuff that's WAY expensive,

what do you all think? Is there a difference between say... Clinique, Oil of Olay, etc and the really stunningly expensive stuff?

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eyeliner how-to question

2008-02-04T16:32:00Z

I feel kinda silly asking this, but how do you use eyeliner pencils? Maybe my eyelid skin is too oily or something, but it never seems to "stick" to me. Is there a trick that I am missing?

I happily use liquid eyeliner, I typically only line my top lid and it has a nice bold line that both makes a big difference in my face and people never think I am wearing make-up.

Just curious, really. Thanks!

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dry skin

2008-02-03T19:06:27Z

I live in the midwest and it has been so friggin cold here lately that I feel like my skin is going to start flaking off in huge chunks because it's so dry. Last night I was so itchy that it took me forever to fall asleep because my dry skin itch was driving me crazy. I put a ton of body lotion on to make it stop, but it didn't work. Anyone have any ideas how to quickly remoisturize my skin so I don't go insane scratching all day and night?

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Yaz?

2008-02-03T18:57:47Z

Have you tried this birth control? Does it really help with moodiness, acne, bloating, etc.? I'm curious.

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